Lighttpd

I am not sure if anyone else has experience this issue but i have a working lighttpd install on a MacMini with tiger 10.4 OSX with php-fastcgi and mysql5.
I also have webmin installed so i can monitor its status and kill processes along the way.

I installed lighttpd using macports and have the "org.macports.lighttpd.plist" set in the LaunchDaemons folders so lighttpd automatically starts upon boot.

Here is the issue:

1) When I issue the "sudo /opt/local/etc/rc.d/lighttpd.sh stop" command from terminal services it shows that the server is being stopped. I see the message: "Stopping Lighttpd"

2) I clear the cache on my web browsers (both Firefox 3.6.8 and Safari 4.1.1) and navigate to the website I have running on port 80 and I can't access the site ( good what I want)

3) I clear the cache again and check the website and voila! the site is back up again.

4) I now go to the terminal command prompt and type "sudo killall -9 lighttpd" ... I am give the command prompt
and yet the site is still up.

5) I issue the command "sudo killall -9 lighttpd" two more times and i get "No matching processes found" ( GOOD what i want).

6) I check the site and viola! it is back up again! :(

7) I now go to webmin to check the "Running Processes" - I see that two processes for Lighttpd are running
as follows

(serveruserid)    /opt/local/sbin/lighttpd -f /opt/local/etc/lighttpd/lighttpd.conf
       root                        opt/local/bin/daemondo --label=lighttpd --start-cmd /opt/local/sbin/lighttpd -D -f /opt/local/etc/lighttpd/lighttpd.conf ; --pid=exec

8) if I stop either one of these processes using the kill command in Webmin ..they just reboot themselves :(

What is going on here? How can I prevent them from rebooting on me when I issue the "sudo /opt/local/etc/rc.d/lighttpd.sh stop" or "killall -9 lighttpd" command?

Thank you for your help

See my Lighttpd config File attached.